So sorry you lost your friend, but happy you shared here a tiny bit of who she was and who she was for you.

I'm reminded of a true story of a rabbi who lost his young daughter to cancer. He had a crisis of faith, but came through it strengthened.

He concluded that G-d doesn't necessarily give you what you pray for when you pray for a certain outcome.

But He always gives you what you pray for when you pray for the strength to accept what actually happens.